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Thursday, January 06, 2005

Surfed n chanced upon someone's blog. Nope, do not know that person. My heart goes out to her tho. She looks good. Photogenic? Sweet lookin? maybe. aint the issue. (someone's gona find tis blog familiar)

She's got a son, and a husband. She's hurt.. guess why??? **BinGO** the problem lies with her husband. Shall skip the details. was just wondering, if he's so bad, why not leave him?? guess she wants to give the child a "complete" family. Then again, isnt a child better off in a single parent family, than in a family that's in constant argument, where his dad dont love his mum? just my views.. i aint married n i dont have a child. prolly wont understand.

why did she marry him in the first place? cuz she got pregnant? cuz she really loves him? or is it just a case of bad judgement. goodness sake, she's only 19! Has the guy always been like tis? or have he changed after the marridge? if i was her, i'd have divorced the guy. way back. i will not bear with that kind of treatment. a relationship goes bust, when there's no Love, Trust, and Understanding... sigh.. but things definately change once you have a child doesnt it?.. it isnt bout urself anymore.. it's about "US".

What's the future for her? or is there no future and happiness? there is.. i guess.. just on a different line. depending on the step she takes... Has she even enjoyed life to the fullest? she had to quit school cuz she got pregnant. Her family would most prolly have to take care of the child. sigh. i feel sad. sad that things have to turn out as such for her. Dispite everything, she's still hoping for a reconcilliation. why? because of her son? "i can live without you, but with you, my son will have a better life".. that's what she said. touching? a little... mother's love i guess. Why cant her husband treat her right, and just be contented with a pretty wife and a cute son? what more do men (or rather, THAT man) want?

Guess i'd never know.. cuz i'm reading HER blog, and my views wld b biased.... will someone knock sense into Anyone of em? Get ON with life!!! think LONG TERM... at the rate the guy's treating her, she'd have a mental break down.

alrite, i apologize for tis incoherent blog entry. it's juz snippets of my thoughts with regards to tis other person's blog... need to voice it out. or i wont b able to snooze in peace. someone will understand tis blog entry tho... won't u? if u do c tis, i really do admire your friend, for her ability to live in the same room with her men. but honestly, she should do something about it. She MIGHT be.. i dont know.. i dont even know her..sigh... a ***great big huG*** to both you and your son... and may the both of you be strong..

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